Before school starts
- Visit the school and talk about it positively
- Practise short separations with a trusted adult
- Read picture books about starting school
- Set a calm morning routine a week ahead
PARENTING · EARLY YEARS
Separation anxiety at school drop-off
Why the first weeks can be hard, and what helps your child settle faster.
IN SHORT
Tears at drop-off are normal in the first weeks of nursery and usually fade within two to four weeks. A short, confident goodbye, a predictable routine, and a parent who comes back when promised help a child learn that school is safe.
Updated · Mayo International School, Patparganj, East Delhi
At drop-off
- Keep goodbyes short and cheerful — don't slip away
- Say when you will be back, in their terms: 'after lunch'
- Hand over to the teacher and leave
- Arrive on time at pick-up
When to talk to the teacher
If distress continues beyond a month, or your child is upset all day, ask the teacher how the day goes after you leave — most children settle within minutes.
Questions parents ask
How long does separation anxiety last in nursery?
Usually two to four weeks, often less once a routine sets in.
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